Why Marriages Are Not That Sweet After Wedding These Days

Recently, marriages seem not to be lasting and fun the way it is supposed to be because:

1. Youths these days rush into relationships because of sex and they indulge in it a lot. Sex is exclusive for married couples, anything outside that is a sin. So why build your relationship on sin. When the foundation of a marriage is full of fornication and abortion how can it stand? 

2. Youths spend most time of the relationship doing what couples should be doing. For the girls, why move into your boyfriend's house? Most times, girls move in and cohabit with their boyfriends engaging in sex every day and night. Give your body some respect, you will move in with him and have all the sex when you are legally married, so why the rush. When you offer your body so freely to him, how will he cherish you after the wedding? He has enjoyed all the berry, in fact in marriage he begins to get tired and want something else, that where the idea of side chic comes in. Make him yearn for you, and when he does, he should do the proper thing.

3. Most guys spend so much money on their girlfriends. You take her shopping, to the movies, to trips etc. Even though I won't totally condemn this, taking her out once in a while is good, but guess what?
It's your wife that deserves all these pampering. Take your newly wed wife out every weekend, spend time together, catch fun and watch your marriage blossom. When you spend on your wife, there's return on investment, good food, good sex, your children are well taken care of. A girlfriend can leave at any time and all the niceties that your wife should have enjoyed is wasted. 

4. Most youths in a relationship don't spend time talking about the future they should be building. They spend time clubbing, hanging out, engaging in premarital sex, attending parties. As a man, you need to have a vision for the future, how you want to raise your kids, how to provide for your family, how to take care of your household. 
Then you ask yourself who can share this vision with me, that's when you search for a partner (wife), and so the two of you spend time discussing how to materialize this future. Successful marriages are built on careful planning before the wedding day.

5. Being ready! Now most boys think having the finances means they are ready for marriage, that's wrong! Look here, you have to be mentally ready, psychologically, financially and most importantly, spiritually because you will be the spiritual head of the home. How will you be spiritually ready when you are soaked in sexual sin with your girlfriend?  The man should be ready to lead his home spiritually, he should also take all the responsibilities that comes with being the man of the house. He should be ready to listen to complaints and resolve it, he should be good at conflict resolution and a very good listener.

Happy Holiday!